Four Ways to Keep Your Man Focused on You

The wedding has come and gone. Do you feel as though he’s not noticing you so much these days?  Does it feel like just getting his focus is a full-time job lately? When a man loses interest or pulls away, sometimes just adding a little pizzazz to a doldrum in your relationship can do the trick.  If you worry that things aren’t the same or that you want him to see you in a new light, then here are some tried-and-true ways to get him to notice you. Special and Loved.com shares four ideas.

1. Spice things up 

Maybe you two need a bit of help in the intimacy department, so try to turn things up on the spice meter. If you feel like he’s not that interested anymore, then by all means, try to incorporate something hot and sexy. Nothing grabs a man’s attention more than his woman trying something new in the bedroom. He will love it, and you will most certainly get and keep his attention!

2. Make yourself a little less available 

Sad but true, sometimes men need a little challenge. If you feel as though he isn’t as eager or enthusiastic as you are lately, then try taking a step back. This isn’t to be confused with making him jealous, as that almost always backfires. This is more about making yourself a little less available to make him notice and wonder what is going on. 
Sometimes when men are presented with this sort-of challenge, it sends a little shock wave. That may be all that you need for the desired attention factor.

3. Be confident and show it 

It’s the way that you move and even the way that you hold yourself that exudes confidence. Body language can tell a man a lot, and if you aren’t standing tall, then he may seem less than interested because you aren’t as confident as he’d like. Men absolutely love confidence, and it’s important that you get in touch with and embrace your own. This isn’t just good for him but for you also as you remember what makes you the person that you are.  Carry yourself as a truly confident and self-assured woman, and he is going to notice this change. Your new attitude will intrigue him and make you feel better in the process!

4. Get back to basics

Were you a different person when the two of you first got together? If we’re being honest, most of us may have been. We become comfortable in a relationship and tend to stop trying so hard. Get back to basics, and reinvent your first date. Dress up in the outfit you wore when you two first met. Think back to what made him fall for you, and then focus on that in your approach. There’s a reason that he fell in love with you, and if you return to that mindset, then he’s going to fall in love with you all over again, which is what it’s all about in the end!

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